I looked at him quizzically, and he said, "You need to change your pad before you go to bed — you could get TSS [toxic shock syndrome]." He proceeded to argue with me for a solid 10 minutes about whether or not I should change my pad.His argument was that he was an EMT and has a sister, so he "knows all about these things." My argument was that I've had a vagina for 20 years.After he tricked me into continuing the conversion for a few more minutes, I told him good-bye.Then he barraged me with dozens of lengthy messages asking to help him orgasm by telling him what he was doing was normal.He then started reeling off names of people I'm friends with on Facebook, even though I hadn't told him my last name and we weren't Facebook friends!I was incredibly freaked out and threatened to call the police, which scared him off.This only irritated me because he didn't really ask, he just decided.
After a few days of talking on Whats App, our conversation fizzled out, and we stopped talking.Needless to say, he went home the next morning, and I've neither talked to or seen him since. Things were going really well, and he eventually almost moved in with me and my family.Then I caught him looking down my 12-year-old daughter's shirt. Recently found out he is awaiting a hearing for a sexual attack on a child under 12.Approximately six months later, I received a message from his Yahoo account that roughly said the following: "Hi! This is going to sound really odd, but X is in prison for a few months (a big misunderstanding!) and I know he'd really like to hear from you.When he asked me out to dinner I figured, sure, why not?